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The winner of Day 2 for "Uff Ye Contest" is PULKIT ATUL GUPTA. He wins an Author-signed copy of "Uff Ye Emotions", a copy of "Love The Ecstasy" by Rachna Sheth and a Music Album CD by Roouh Band. Congrats. (Please send your full address on Abhilash.Ruhela@gmail.com so that we can send you the prizes)
The Question For "Uff Ye Contest" Day 3 is:
You have a partner who is from a poor background. Suddenly, your parents suggest someone more beautiful/handsome than him/her with much better background who is also ready to love you as much as him/her. What decision would you take and why? :-)
Try to be as much creative as you can be...No words limit. Today's Goodies are: Author-signed copy of "Uff Ye Emotions" and a Music Album CD by Roouh Band.
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ABHILASH RUHELA - VEERU & UFF YE EMOTIONS TEAM!!!
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My today 's answer is i would marry with person i love even though if he is poor. As you can live without luxury but one can live without love . . Money can't buy you happiness . But love can give you happiness for rest of your life. . The happiness you get in doing small small things for the person you love is more precious .money can buy house with bricks but can't make it as home with happiness for that you need love. . . Life have up and down in life so its not necessary that person can always be rich . No one knows when destiny turn you down and you become poor. .
Form my side i will accept the one who is poor in terms of money but have millions way to love me...if there is love we have inspiration,ability to fight,do hard work,to face evry situation,feeling the same in sad and happy days..when you have your girl with you whom you love nobody can stop you to get what you want...its better that we dont compare Love with money...
my answer for today question is i will marry to the poor one because no one can luv me as she used to luv..it doesn't matter how they both are common(the poor one and other). the same thing is for me i cant't luv the person same. money cant buy happyness.as in my case my partner will b a girl so there is problem in poor girl.and yes in case boy partner if He has a support of a girl than he can do any in the world, nothing is impossible for him. i will explain my parents and convence them for the marrage. if they dont agree than i will marry the another one as our parents always think good for us. i will sacrifice my love. In todays time on one is in the bound of poor background. Every one wants true luv, and if u have then just take care of that. Many people dont have luv.
well i will choose mylove i have trust that one day he will become more rich than second one bcoz i hav full faith on him n his hardwork bcoz he is my baazigar jo hari baazi b jeet skta h n wo pyar hio kiya ji face dekh k kiya jaaye as we all knw k face to kv b distort ho skta h...he may love me more but i cant love second one becoz i love mylove n love is irreplaceble n jo pyar hi kya jo face ya bg dekh k kre bcoz uff ye emotions hi kam aate h...no one can chnge my feeling for him for me he is my supermen my bachi bcoz i hav faith in god that he has created us for each other like soulmates we r born to love each other to feel each other to be wid each other weather its good time or bad time n if v r together we can convert bad time in good time as myfrog has his magical wound who can do anything to bring smile in his maalik's face :*
It is about priorities. Few people find it better to dispensation someone for enhanced opportunities. Whereas for few it’s like sin betraying anyone, it’s better indeed. But who believes anyone now days. Everything seems green and healthy from freestanding. I am describing in both cases. You can never evaluate people with money, and you are not sure of the person with no money. It’s a tough decision. While being practical, if the love is given equally one will defiantly go with richness. But if they believe in themselves and in their love- they can become rich as well (for people who think money is more important). It is like if you are with your self-respect you will choose money more priority but let me remind you that if you are a human- leme cleared it, a good human... you will always have a guilty feeling leaving someone for something. Depends upon the situations, matter and corresponding. In other side if you have dared to love, you have seen something in that person right? So stick to it till the end because every moment spent with that person is counted in god's diary. Do remind yourself of it. And in case you find that guy truly not serious about what you are thinking, like to move ahead- leave him truly recommended. And most of the time money seems to be a scenic beauty. So choose depending your insist. Because your decision will decide life for many others.
There is no option than selecting the one I love as he is my partner, so involuntarily he completely loves me back. I have already in love with the one so, why would I even think of the second one. Money, background are not that important than what love and emotions are. At the end “Uff ye emotions” make us think with our hearts and not our mind. I don’t mind if my partners create less amount of money than the one my parents are up to fixing me up but above all I will be happy that he is with me. Love’s stupid. Love’s incredible. But, Love is imperative.
First of all i want share a beautiful message that will give the answer to this question,,,
A middle Class boy asks his girlfriend : "if i go poor , will you accept me???
girl hugs him and says I am always with you....
Boy: if a very Rich Boy Proposes You????
Girl kissed the boy and says "I am sure that would be you",,,
So money doesn't matter when love is there,,,, and a BETTER FUTURE IS MORE MATTERS THAN A BETTER BACKGROUND,...... because background is not created by you,,, but the future is,,,
so i will only go with my love not with the RICHNESS Or the Background,,,,,
and for the last thing that you asked in the question about looks ... i just want to say these few lines...
"Sirf Ek Hi baat seekhi in Husn Walo se humne,,,
Haseen Jiski jitni Adaa hai,,,,
Woh utna hi bewafa hai,,,,"
So i will only go with the love not the looks,,,,
“Love”... a word used quite often, a word used to describe the eternal feelings.
“Love”... a feeling of heart, a feeling that binds two people together, a feeling unbound by any barriers
“Love” can happen anytime with anyone.
Love does not recognise any boundary... boundaries such as caste, creed, monetary status and even boundaries such as having a beautiful face or not. “Love” just happens and if a person truly loves someone then these minor factors do not affect at all.
If my parents choose someone for me then closing my eyes I can say that the person is good and well-settled in life. But to live a whole long life with a person these are not the only qualities that are sought for. If I want to be with someone then the qualities I shall seek are a sense of dignity, dedication, understanding and a bit of passion and adjustment. But these qualities may or maynot be present in the person chosen by my parents. And even if the person is ready to love me as much as my partner I won’t be able to love him in return with the same intensity and passion as I love my partner and that won’t be a fair thing to do to him.
So, my decision would be to try and help my partner rise upto a better level so that my parents also agree with me that he is the person who is correct for me, who would keep me happy and also agree that beauty does not only come from face... it comes from heart.
My love wont be erased if a wealthy beautiful girl come into my life. i will love the girl even if she is poor. money doesn't matters for the life just the happiness. "Sacrifice anything in your life for happiness but never Sacrifice your happiness for anything." this is the what i follow and will follow at any situation of my life.
I'll definitely have to choose the one I love. Others might be ready to love as much as others, but I can't know what the other girl might be like in the future. I've loved a girl for years, I know her heart, I know what she'll be thinking and I can trust her love and she can trust mine. and trust most definitely plays a big part in a long-term future. A momentary choice to go with the other girl, based on background and richness will bring my future down, as well as the girl whom I love. Because I love her, I can't bring her down either now can I? Besides, richness is in the heart as well. If you know a heart is loving you without conditions, then that heart to me is the richest.
“Love”... a word used quite often, a word used to describe the eternal feelings.
“Love”... a feeling of heart, a feeling that binds two people together, a feeling unbound by any barriers
“Love” can happen anytime with anyone.
Love does not recognise any boundary... boundaries such as caste, creed, monetary status and even boundaries such as having a beautiful face or not. “Love” just happens and if a person truly loves someone then these minor factors do not affect at all.
If my parents choose someone for me then closing my eyes I can say that the person is good and well-settled in life. But to live a whole long life with a person these are not the only qualities that are sought for. If I want to be with someone then the qualities I shall seek are a sense of dignity, dedication, understanding and a bit of passion and adjustment. But these qualities may or maynot be present in the person chosen by my parents. And even if the person is ready to love me as much as my partner I won’t be able to love him in return with the same intensity and passion as I love my partner and that won’t be a fair thing to do to him.
So, my decision would be to try and help my partner rise upto a better level so that my parents also agree with me that he is the person who is correct for me, who would keep me happy and also agree that beauty does not only come from face... it comes from heart.
“Love”... a word used quite often, a word used to describe the eternal feelings.
“Love”... a feeling of heart, a feeling that binds two people together, a feeling unbound by any barriers
“Love” can happen anytime with anyone.
Love does not recognise any boundary... boundaries such as caste, creed, monetary status and even boundaries such as having a beautiful face or not. “Love” just happens and if a person truly loves someone then these minor factors do not affect at all.
If my parents choose someone for me then closing my eyes I can say that the person is good and well-settled in life. But to live a whole long life with a person these are not the only qualities that are sought for. If I want to be with someone then the qualities I shall seek are a sense of dignity, dedication, understanding and a bit of passion and adjustment. But these qualities may or maynot be present in the person chosen by my parents. And even if the person is ready to love me as much as my partner I won’t be able to love him in return with the same intensity and passion as I love my partner and that won’t be a fair thing to do to him.
So, my decision would be to try and help my partner rise upto a better level so that my parents also agree with me that he is the person who is correct for me, who would keep me happy and also agree that beauty does not only come from face... it comes from heart.
“Love”... a word used quite often, a word used to describe the eternal feelings.
“Love”... a feeling of heart, a feeling that binds two people together, a feeling unbound by any barriers
“Love” can happen anytime with anyone.
Love does not recognise any boundary... boundaries such as caste, creed, monetary status and even boundaries such as having a beautiful face or not. “Love” just happens and if a person truly loves someone then these minor factors do not affect at all.
If my parents choose someone for me then closing my eyes I can say that the person is good and well-settled in life. But to live a whole long life with a person these are not the only qualities that are sought for. If I want to be with someone then the qualities I shall seek are a sense of dignity, dedication, understanding and a bit of passion and adjustment. But these qualities may or maynot be present in the person chosen by my parents. And even if the person is ready to love me as much as my partner I won’t be able to love him in return with the same intensity and passion as I love my partner and that won’t be a fair thing to do to him.
So, my decision would be to try and help my partner rise upto a better level so that my parents also agree with me that he is the person who is correct for me, who would keep me happy and also agree that beauty does not only come from face... it comes from heart.
i would choose the guy who is poor bcoz he already loves me.
because yes the other person is much more richer than him(poor guy ).he may be more attractive,more intelligent caring,more fortunate.but i wont be decieved by these things . they r temptations. because even i m not the most perfect person.there r people who r greater than me. but yet he (Poor guy)chose me and i love him for that.and that is what love is - not finding the perfect person, but the person with whom u r perfect with. :)
No one is going to look for biography in case of true love. I am strongly in favour of never leaving my partner under any circumstances. There should not be any condition on the basis of which I will love and select my partner. This happens naturally. I believe that, that is how nature intended it to be, and that is how nature operates in all animals and birds. And when it comes to marriage, I think marriage is a relationship of love and companionship and should be treated as such to produce the best results. When the parents have a voice in the matter of marriage, they often get side tracked by other considerations like money, family connection, status and caste.
Success in marriage is more a matter of good luck and an unsuccessful marriage is a misery as much for the man as is for the woman. After all when parents decide a relationship, they are seldom in a position to know the girl well enough. I mean they can only know about the family background, outward appearances of the girl, her educational attainments or her other apparent accomplishments like proficiency in household affairs. According to me it is her basic temperament and inherent nature which leads to the success of married life. I, therefore, suppose the best thing for the young people would be generally to respect the wishes of their elders, while selecting their partners and perhaps the best thing for the elders would be to take it easy, adapt themselves to the changing times and be prepared to accept the inevitable. For me “Loyalty is something you give regardless of what you get back, and in giving loyalty, you're getting more loyalty; and out of loyalty flow other great qualities.”
you used the word READY in the question....First of all I want to say that peoples fall in love with each other. How can anyone say marry me I am ready to love you as much as he do with you..."प्यार किया नही जाता प्यार हो जाता हैं "...One couplet by Sahir Ludhyanvi:
एक शहंशाह ने दौलत का सहारा लेकर,
हम ग़रीबों की महोब्बत का उड़ाया हैं मजाक !
If this type of situation meet me then I will prefer my love because I am one man type woman...
"हम ने तो एक ही शख्स पर महोब्बत ख़त्म कर दी,
अब महोब्बत किसको कहते हैं कुछ मालूम ही नही !"
If my parents will insist me to meet that guy then surely I will meet with that guy and will tell him about my love and I know man's ego will not allow him to go on with this relation...and then I will try to convince my parents...I believe in my love and also on my parents they will understand me and my love...If my parents got ready to give me a chance (I am sure they will say yes to me) I will invite my partner to meet my parents...Then they will know that a relation cannot be strong with beauty of body but it can be with the beauty of heart...One thing for sure I can say I will not go against my parents because they are and always be my first love and I will not leave my second love (my partner)...I will not ditch my both love...I believe....
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