Kill That KEEDA In You !!!

            499th BLOG POST -->>

       The happiness of cracking a level and entering into a new one is always incredible and unutterable. This is my 499th Blog Post and I am leaving the era of my blog in 400s. The journey from 400th to 499th has been the best in my blogging career. The number of people I have come together with. The number of people I have been introduced to. The number of people who have started liking me. The number of people for whom I wait to comment on my every blog post is a moment which I'll never forget. Many good posts and many mediocre posts came during this period of 100 blogs and I am happy that I have not received even a single criticism during this period. It has never happened before 400th. I have received criticism time to time. But after 400th, I don't know what but people loved reading my blog rather than judging it. This has been the dream to surpass the level of judgment and be at the place where people stop judging you and appreciate you for whatever you do and when you fall, they suggest and improvise you. Thanks a lot for all the people who keep motivating me. I will never end writing till all of you are with me in the same way. 


            Coming to today's blog, I was thinking about different traits and attitude of people. I also witnessed the crimes which takes place around us. I started thinking that what is the real reason behind these crimes that people do it without thinking any good-bad about it. How can someone go and stab the knife in someone's abdomen and laugh at it? How can someone plant a bomb and see 100s of people dying in front of his eyes? How can someone rape a delicate beautiful girl and see her struggling in front of his eyes? How can some collegians rag their juniors who have just started their career in the same field where these collegians have already seen success? How can someone break into the house of a middle-class family and steal all the golds and money he has earned in his lifetime? How can someone harass a girl whose father has not been able to pay lakhs to them just because they had brought his daughter as their daughter-in-law? How can someone hang himself without thinking about his parent's life without him and die for a silly small reason? These questions kept arising in my mind and I kept thinking about it for 2 hours. I was done with a blog post and I was relaxing when these thoughts started coming into my mind. Then, I got to a conclusion. 


             It is a trait, an attitude which you possess in a very small amount in you but it turns dangerous day by day. The jealousy, the ego, the anger, the patience-less attitude and many other which creeps in your mind whenever you see someone or you deal with some situations and keeps on growing day by day. If you don't control them, they surpass all the levels and you become a monster and a criminal after sometime. I know one of my friend in college. She is very temper-minded and she is proud about this. Whenever she is done with a heated argument or a fight with someone, she finds it quite relaxing for her. She feels nice after abusing some of her friends for some silly reasons and winning over them. One day, I asked her why do you do this? Why did you say that to him? He is such a good friend of yours and you should have controlled yourself rather than saying those horrible things to him. She replied,"I have an ego and I can't let it go just like this. I respect my ego and just to keep it above of all, I had to say all that to him. Otherwise, I would have turned sick for next whole week". She said this with a mind-blowing confidence and I was shocked to hear that. How can someone be so silly to shout at a friend and say those hurting things just to keep an EGO ahead. I never fell into her fights after that. When she has ego and she is so possessive about it, no one can take that possession away from her.


             After thinking all this, I tweeted my conclusion and people loved it and many retweeted it. I would like to share that tweet of mine even here- 


"Killing is Anger. Raping is Lust. Dowry is Misusing. Ragging is Ego. Stealing is Greed. Bomb-Blasting is Jealousy. Suicide is Underestimating. Kill these traits in you." 


              Yes, just focus on the sentence and you will realize it now that these are the traits which give birth to these crimes. When these traits of Anger, Lust, Misusing, Ego, Greed, Jealousy and Underestimating touches its extreme zenith, these crimes are the resultant of it. When the anger touches its extreme, a person feels no guilt in killing his friend or giving a ransom to someone to kill him. When the lust reaches its extreme, a boyfriend feels no harm in raping his girlfriend and uploading the video on porn sites. When the level of misusing people and relations in life comes to an extreme, the wife is harassed for dowry and daughter is harassed for sex. When the ego comes as the biggest possession and a lifeline for someone, he feels no harm in ragging a junior and killing his self-respect and confidence. When a person becomes too greedy, stealing is the best which comes in his find to fulfill all his demands he has from his life. When jealousy arises and a person can't see others happy and gay, they blast a bomb and give a tragedy to them. When a person keeps under-estimating everything he has in his life, he finally starts under-estimating even himself and commits suicide as he finds himself useless. 


            This shows us that some traits and some attitudes in life will never give a good result to us. It will always make us do a crime or to commit something which is too illegal and too shameful. And this traits starts owning your heart and mind with a very small place of it. It is you who broadens its space and give it more area to cover and rule your heart and mind. This should be controlled. You don't need any personality development for this. You just need a control over yourself that you'll not make this traits an identity of yours. Try to kill these traits in you rather than killing someone else later on for keeping the respect of your trait(s). I am not a motivational speaker neither I have that skill, but, these are some findings of my brainstorming with myself and when I find them valid and capable to be shared with beautiful people like you, I write it on my blog. Please, look upon this and share this with your friends whom you find possessing the same kind of attitude. Try to characterize them with good traits. And do stigmatize yourself as the most calm person on this earth rather than proving that you are the best in keeping your foolish traits over the people and relations. Think.


             Thanks. And YES YES YES- Next is 500TH. :-) Do share your valuable support and give the 500th as much love as possible. I bow to all of you. 


   ABHILASH RUHELA - VEERU