22nd Marriage Anniversary of my Parents - Special Day !!!

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        Its 23rd November today. A very special day for me. There are two rationales for it. Lets speak about the first one. Its the birthday of one of the dearest friend - Prashant Nepte. I wasn't close to him some months ago. I used to feel that he is a boring stuff and therefore he don't interact much. There were many more misconceptions. But I don't know how did our relation grew so stronger and firm that today he is the best buddy to hang out with. He is interesting and I love talking to him and planning about the future ideas and different innovations. He wants to be a Photographer. I have seen some of his snaps and I am pretty sure that he will become an International Photographer very soon. On this birthday, I wish him a many many happy returns of the day. May he live a long and happy life. And I hope that he turns into a Photographer soon. I love ambitious people and he is surely the one. Prashant, a very Happy Birthday to you from the behalf of the ARB team.

            Now, coming to the second reason which makes 23rd November a very important and essential day of my life and my family. Its the 22nd Marriage Anniversary of my parents. I am so happy and I am feeling as its my wedding today. Haha. I have always admired the co-ordination and relation of my parents. They have treated each other with lots of respect. I have read so many times in newspaper and magazines that people don't tolerate their partner and file the petition for divorcing and making their marriage life a topic of gossip and laughter in the society and the world. Two people coming from different societies and lifestyles accept each other and start living their life with togetherness. They plan for the future and they make their present as beautiful as possible. I have always seen my parents laughing and sharing their small small happiness with each other and thus their relationship is so sweet that I can easily give the example to anyone in my life.

            The patience and the ability to make the partner feel comfortable is the best essential of their relationship. The initial days of their marriage life was too hard but the way they have overcomed it and wrote their own destiny is worth commendable. Their love can be seen with this example - They have completed their 22 years of marriage today and I have already crossed 21 years of my life. Hahaha. Sorry, no glamor talks for parents. Haha. Sorry Mom and Dad. I always admire one decision of my parents. I criticized this idea some years ago but with the ages the maturity grew into me and now I feel that this one decision from them has made our life so beautiful and mainly my life. I know you may be abusing me that why am I not telling that one decision. Ok. The decision of keeping a SINGLE CHILD is the best decision they have taken and implanted in their life. This has made our life so easy and smooth. The costly world now don't matter us a much because we know that we are 3 members and we can afford our stomach and tit-bit-of-luxurious-life. This has made them to love me as much as they can and this made possible for them to fulfill all my wishes. I would suggest everyone reading this post to imply the same in your life. Try to keep a SINGLE CHILD and see the difference. Its a tough decision but its the best one. What an Idea Sir Jee !!! To my parents. ;-)

            On this 22nd Marriage Anniversary, I would like to give them lots of love and hugs. They are the most beautiful parents. Such a hard-working father and such a mother. I can't define my mother. In short, she is an all-rounder and loved by all. I pray to God that my parents keep loving each other in the same way and keep guiding and nourishing me with the same zeal in future too. I would also pray for myself that I get the same parents in each birth because I have adjusted with them now. Haha. Sorry Mom Dad once again. ;-) My all the wishes and love to them for today.

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ABHILASH RUHELA - VEERU